11 May 2011

Under The Influence

Have you ever been in a situation where you didn't like someone romantically, or, they didn't like you? Yes, I know you have. Maybe its simply because you (or the other person) is under the influence.

So many times people take suggestions from friends that they don't even realize when they are under the influence. But, in this instance, I am almost CONFIDENT you are. Well, the proverbial you of course...

Let's insert some names to make it easier ... you have Joshua and Melissa. Joshua and Melissa have been dating for a while when Joshua decides he is not interested in a relationship. Joshua has decided that he doesnt want to be with a girl that he spends ALL of his time with. Joshua has even told Melissa his feelings. Melissa, being his main woman, is confused. She does not understand how this man can feel this way out of the blue. Well, Melissa realizes that everyone loves her. His friends love her. His family loves her. Maybe this scares Joshua away. Joshua seems to believe that he cant like Melissa because everyone else does. Instead he chooses the girl that he can have to himself, he chooses the girl that no one would approve us, so he never takes her around anyone.

What is this about?

-ahava-



11, May, 2011