on the fourth day of august I had a conversation,
and, on the the fifth day of august in the year of two thousand ten,
i wrote about it
this is it
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it is always interesting to both hear people talk about love and discuss love with other people
i seemingly view love differently
for all of you bible readers out there, 1 Cor 13 is what people should "view" love as
love is patient, love is kind .....
so many people are functioning based on pure likeability.
people do things out of spite because they do not like what a person did to them
people spoil others because they liked what the other did to them
but its not about likeability
its about love
in love, we need space and consistency. as i told my bff, sporadic consistency may just be best
i need to know when you need to be alone
but i also need to know when you need me close by
be it platonic love, romantic love, familial love ...
the type of love does not matter
the fact that it is love means you need to treat it as such
when i was little my mother said (after one of my lying sprees, as children do): "i have to love you, i am your mother, therefore i always will; however, if you lie to me, i will not trust you, and if i do not trust you, i can not like you."
in life, my focus is love. i want to love you, always, all of you.
yes, you will get on my nerves and push my buttons,
but that does not mean i need to stop loving you.
yes, you will probably hurt me emotionally,
but that does not mean i need to stop loving you.
someone once said "you can never be a fool in love, it is those that reject love that become the fools"
i agree totally and completely with that
love is not tit for tat
it is never 50/50
because i may be loving you the best i know how
and it may just not be good enough
you may be loving me the best you know how
and it may just not be good enough
but, if its love, it will forever be good enough
because "love always wins."
at the end of the day, when all is said and done, i have your best interest at heart
even if we never speak again, i have loved you. i do love you. and, i always will love you.
there is nothing greater than the action of love.
there is nothing better than the feeling of love.
there is nothing more genuine than to be in love.
experiencing love is a roller coaster ride
its not what others always say
yes flowers are involved, and exotic vacations
but when its love
"being stuck in the basement, sitting on a tricycle"
is still one of the best experiences you could ever have
love always,
g.
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